You really want fit in and gain acceptance from the most people around you.
Simultaneously you really want to show them how wrong they had been all along.
The thing with the seeking acceptance is you almost never prove anyone wrong while seeking acceptance (and you don't get much acceptance either).
The thing with proving them wrong is that you have a strong possibility of gaining lot of acceptance after you have proved them completely wrong.
Here is the really ironic part:
If there is a voice of a misfit disagreeing with the crowd and a conformist struggling to fit in within you, your best chance at gaining acceptance in the long run is listening to the misfit.